Are there any no email needed dating sites for privacy nuts? I’m trying to figure out what people are using that feels legit (and not just bait for a subscription).
I’m also curious how people are handling bots lately—are you doing video verification early, or just moving slow with messaging?
I’m fine with ads if they’re not out of control, but the moment a site asks for a card just to “verify,” I get suspicious.
Basic rule: don’t share your phone number or socials immediately—keep it in-app until trust is earned.
Here’s what I’m prioritizing right now:
- No credit card “verification” screens
- Real profiles (or at least fewer obvious bots)
- Reporting that actually works