This thread focuses on LGBTQ+ friendly matching. I asked the same thing because it is hard to tell whether a platform is actually active or just full of empty promises.
For most people, the decision comes down to whether the app is active enough and whether it feels safe to browse. I look for moderation, clear reporting tools, and some kind of identity or age verification before I trust anything.
It is always worth comparing one niche site with a couple of mainstream apps before paying for anything.