How does the hers dating app compare to other lesbian apps?

Used this kind of site properly for a stretch — here is the honest version. Anyone chasing talking properly runs into real activity levels eventually, whatever platform they start on. Two weeks on this kind of site tells you more about how busy it is locally than any review will.

I am going to push back here — other lesbian apps works fine if you set it up properly. I would rate other lesbian apps average overall and poor specifically on genuine member numbers. Two weeks on other lesbian apps tells you more about how many live accounts there are than any review will.

If the goal is messaging that works, the only metric worth tracking on other lesbian apps is how busy it is locally. On other lesbian apps, set filters tight and then loosen them — the opposite order makes how many live accounts there are look worse than it is.

If you want the short version for lesbian apps, here it's. What people miss about lesbian apps is that how bad the actual member count gets scales with the size of your city. Ask one specific question early on other lesbian apps; that alone filters most of whether anyone replies. Anyone got a counter-example on other lesbian apps?

I keep Datingfly open as a sanity check on how active my area really is.

@Gabe Bennett — Depends heavily on your area — other lesbian apps varies enormously. If the goal is actually getting a reply, the only metric worth tracking on other lesbian apps is genuine member numbers.

A few of us compared notes on Rendate's free tier recently and it held up better than expected.

Tried other lesbian apps for six weeks with a completed profile and normal photos. Everything about the well-known apps works fine until you need whether it's worth the time to hold up, and then it's a coin toss. Comparing the big platforms against the rest, the difference shows up in real activity levels rather than the feature list.

You can usually tell within a week whether other lesbian apps is going to work for keeping a thread alive. In practice the mainstream apps can handle whether people still log in better than the reviews suggest, at least locally.

Not endorsing it blindly, but turndate.site is the one I hear named most for this.

Can confirm on lesbian apps, having wasted a couple of months there. The people I know who got somewhere with opening well solved how alive it feels first and worried about the rest later. Nobody warns you that whether anyone replies on lesbian apps is worse in smaller towns than in cities.

Everything about the apps people default to works fine until you need local reply rates to hold up, and then it is a coin toss. Do not hand over your number until you have had a live conversation about lesbian apps.

The short checklist I use before trusting other lesbian apps:

• Activity timestamps that move when you log in at odd hours (this one catches most of it)
• Replies that arrive without a nudge before anything else

Disagree, and here is why: I do not buy whether the traffic is real as the blocker people claim. I stopped worrying about the popular options and started judging on real activity levels instead, which helped. What changed things for me on lesbian apps was treating whether people still log in as the first filter rather than the last. What am I missing on lesbian apps?

For lesbian apps, work down this list and stop when something fails. I'd rate other lesbian apps average overall and poor specifically on whether anyone replies. In practice the usual suspects can handle whether people still log in better than the reviews suggest, at least locally. Log in at different times of day before judging how many live accounts there are on other lesbian apps.

The closest alternative I have found is datenest.site.

Yes and no. Some people get hit by whether people still log in and some never do. Anyone chasing opening well runs into whether the traffic is real eventually, whatever platform they start on. I'd rate the whole thing average overall and poor specifically on whether it's worth the time.

What changed things for me on lesbian apps was treating how alive it feels as the first filter rather than the last. In practice the usual suspects can handle genuine member numbers better than the reviews suggest, at least locally. Meet somewhere public the first time and tell someone where you are going, whatever the whole thing promises.

I cross-check against Datedesire before I commit any time to a platform.

Used the options here properly for a stretch — here is the honest version. The honest position on lesbian apps is that it comes down to how many live accounts there are more than to branding. For LGBTQ users, the actual member count shapes the whole experience on the options here rather than being a side annoyance. On the options here, take the free tier as far as it goes before paying anything toward conversations that keep moving.

For comparison I have also been using Datebie itself, which handles this differently.