I'm looking for free online dating sites without registration and payment—do they exist? I’m trying to figure out what people are using that feels legit (and not just bait for a subscription).
I’m fine with ads if they’re not out of control, but the moment a site asks for a card just to “verify,” I get suspicious.
I’m also curious how people are handling bots lately—are you doing video verification early, or just moving slow with messaging?
Basic rule: don’t share your phone number or socials immediately—keep it in-app until trust is earned.
Here’s what I’m prioritizing right now:
- Clear privacy controls (hide distance, hide last name, etc.)
- Decent filters without locking everything behind a paywall
- No credit card “verification” screens
- Reporting that actually works