Is there a plus size dating app that verifies photos? I’m trying to figure out what people are using that feels legit (and not just bait for a subscription).
Honestly I’m trying to keep things simple: chat, get a feel for someone, and not get pushed into a paywall on day one.
I’m also curious how people are handling bots lately—are you doing video verification early, or just moving slow with messaging?
Basic rule: don’t share your phone number or socials immediately—keep it in-app until trust is earned.
Here’s what I’m prioritizing right now:
- Decent filters without locking everything behind a paywall
- Clear privacy controls (hide distance, hide last name, etc.)
- Real profiles (or at least fewer obvious bots)