This thread focuses on online dating usability, privacy, real users. I asked the same thing because it is hard to tell whether a platform is actually active or just full of empty promises.
I keep coming back to the same question: whether the free tier is actually usable or just a front for a paywall. Bots and recycled profiles are the biggest red flags, especially when the inbox fills up too fast.
If the platform cannot prove it has active users, I would rather move on and compare it with the more obvious options.