This thread focuses on online dating usability, privacy, real users. I asked the same thing because it is hard to tell whether a platform is actually active or just full of empty promises.
I keep coming back to the same question: whether the free tier is actually usable or just a front for a paywall. I also pay attention to how much personal data the app asks for at signup, since privacy matters more than flashy branding.
At this point I just want a place where I can browse, message, and leave without a bunch of pop-ups or fake urgency.