This thread focuses on older-user friendly options, LGBTQ+ friendly matching. I asked the same thing because it is hard to tell whether a platform is actually active or just full of empty promises.
The big issue for me is always the mix of real profiles, hidden fees, and how fast the site pushes upgrades. I look for moderation, clear reporting tools, and some kind of identity or age verification before I trust anything.
The people who seem happiest usually keep expectations low, test the free features first, and never rush into an upgrade.