Asking about cam websites pay models best because the advice I keep getting is clearly second-hand. What I've not managed to check properly is message limits behind payment.
My rule now is simple: judge this on the pay wall on messaging in the first three days or move on. The gap between how the cam sites gets marketed and how hidden costs actually gets handled is where the frustration starts. I'd settle for cam sessions at this point.
Reporting back in a month on cam websites pay models best if anything changes.